GOD'S LOVE AMIDST DEATH & SUFFERING
John Aziza
What is the purest form of love—can you guess? The Bible gives us the answer: “Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (Jn 15:13). Such love is selfless and rare. Yet, that's exactly what Jesus did when He hung on the cross to atone for the world's sin. Jesus became the ultimate embodiment of love, and He did it for you and me. But this was something only He could do, since He was perfect and without sin. Indeed, no matter what we may have done to restore favor with God, we could never satisfy His divine justice. So God sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die in our place, and the reality of this sacrificial act continues to transform lives even today.
But God’s love is far more profound than we may realize, and Christ’s crucifixion two thousand years ago continues to impact our present world in astounding ways. While society struggles to explain life’s meaning with its own philosophies and theories, the Bible—God’s instruction manual—provides real answers and solutions to all of our problems. It tells us why we were created, how the human race failed because of sin, what impact this had in terms of death and suffering, and how God used our failure to unveil His blueprint for eternal redemption. Most importantly, the Bible reveals how this entire process defines our Creator as a God of love and mercy, unlike anything else in the universe.
Why is there Death and Suffering in the World?
The question of human death and suffering is perhaps the most daunting and complex, often lacking a satisfying answer. And for many, the implications of this question are both personal and painful. So, how does the Bible explain the cause of death and suffering? Why do earthquakes, wars, atrocities, and crimes exist to plague our world? To understand why, we must journey back to the very beginning of time. The book of Genesis records the origin of human life and the events that followed man’s creation. It reveals that death and suffering were not part of God’s original plan, but the result of man's disobedience. In the beginning, God created a perfect world (Gen 1:31) and gave mankind the gift of free will. Adam and Eve, the first humans, used that freedom to defy God's command, and through their disobedience, sin entered the world, bringing pain and sorrow with it (Gen 3:6; Rom 5:12). Despite this, God has used our failure to display His most splendid expression of love.
It's important to realize that God did not create death and suffering, nor does He take pleasure in our anguish. Man alone bears responsibility for these evils. But God did create contrast—wonderful contrast. Therefore, the sin that ushered in these negative consequences would not be wasted. Consider the fact that without hate, love would go unappreciated. Without suffering, joy would lose its meaning. Without evil, good is indistinguishable. As Genesis 1:3-5 illustrates, even in the perfect Garden of Eden, the alternating periods of darkness and light served a remarkable purpose. They helped Adam and Eve appreciate the value and beauty of light. So contrast is an integral part of God's design, a tool He uses to enhance the value of life and deepen our understanding of His profound love.
God's love is precious. And like a diamond set against black velvet, His love shines most brilliantly in the gloomiest darkness. It may seem hard to believe, but death and suffering magnify God's love by serving as the backdrop that makes it stand out. So even suffering and death—tragic as they are—play a necessary role in God's sovereign plan. So though these elements were not part of God's original design, He has allowed them to exist to reveal His extraordinary love.
As famed preacher John Piper once said: “The terrorized and troubled world exists to make a place for Christ the Son of God to suffer and die for our sins... This is the world where the best expression of divine love could occur. Because the Bible is clear about the greatest and most beautiful display of love imaginable: 'For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: for peradventure for the good man some one would even dare to die. But God commendeth his own love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us' (Rom 5:8). No one would give up His life to save a vile and evil man—yet Jesus did... Therefore evil and death now exist so that God could only love like He could in this place.”
Indeed, the Scriptures support Piper's claim. God’s plan was unfolding from the very beginning, allowing Adam and Eve to initiate the process of human death and suffering to make way for the crucifixion of Jesus, who would serve as the ultimate expression of God's love:
“…for of a truth in this city against thy holy Servant Jesus, whom thou didst anoint, both Herod and Pontius Pilate, with the Gentiles and the peoples of Israel, were gathered together, to do whatsoever thy hand and thy counsel foreordained to come to pass... But God, being rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, even when we were dead through our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace have ye been saved), and raised us up with him, and made us to sit with him in the heavenly places, in Christ Jesus: and to make all men see what is the dispensation (issuing forth) of the mystery which for ages hath been hid in God who created all things; to the intent that now unto the principalities and the powers in the heavenly places might be made known through the church the manifold wisdom of God” (Acts 4:27-28; Eph 2:4-6, 3:9-10).
These scriptures reveal that the evil permitted by God amplifies His greatness, not only in our physical world, but also in the celestial realm inhabited by angels. It was all done to unveil the most ingenious plan of salvation ever conceived, allowing God to demonstrate His love and wisdom to all of creation.
Suffering Prepares Us for Heaven
When Satan led a third of the angels in rebellion against God, they were cast out of heaven permanently (Is 14:12; Lk 10:18; Rev 12:3-9). Jude 1:6 alludes to this event, referring to the angels who "kept not their first estate, but left their own habitation."
These fallen angels had never experienced suffering, death, or anything less than perfection in heaven. Their lack of experience with anything unpleasant caused them to take their privileged existence for granted, ultimately leading to their dissatisfaction with heaven and rebellion against God. It's possible that God created humans to one day replenish heaven and fill the void left by the fallen angels. However, to prevent the potential for a second rebellion, God permits humans to first experience sin's consequences, including pain, sorrow, and ultimately, death.
In His divine wisdom, God employs suffering not only to inoculate humanity from future rebellion but also to prepare His people for the unparalleled blessings of heaven. The experience of pain enhances the depth of joy, and the awareness of mortality renders eternal life that much more precious. By experiencing these contrasts, humans can more fully appreciate the sublime perfection of everlasting life in God's presence much more profoundly than the angels.
Suffering Reminds Us of Our Need for a Better Place
Those who suffer are naturally detached from the things of this world. In fact, it is this very sense of detachment that God uses to remind us of our need for something greater, stirring within us a longing for Him and for the promise of a better place. Sadly, when people lose hope, they often fall prey to satan's lies, seeking relief through suicide, instead of turning to the One who offers true fulfillment and peace.
Yet, suffering opens a powerful opportunity for Christians to share the hope of the Gospel. In the midst of pain, we can point a hurting world to the promise of eternal life in heaven, a gift available to all who place their trust in the Lord Jesus.
Suffering: the Shaper of Men’s Characters
The Bible teaches that suffering is a tool God uses to shape and refine our character (Rom 5:3-5). Some of the most compassionate and empathetic individuals are those who have walked through hardship and pain. Studies reveal that people with limited financial means often display greater generosity than those with abundance, their compassion fueled by personal experience with hardship and deprivation. In contrast, financial wealth tends to breed selfishness and detachment from the struggles of others. Those living in comfort may find it easier to insulate themselves from the world's pain. Yet, it is through the enduring of trials that our character is forged and strengthened, as Scripture reminds us: “But He knows the way that I take; when He has tested me, I shall come forth as gold” (Job 23:10).
Suffering: A Tester of Men’s Hearts
One of the reasons God allows suffering is to test our hearts and reveal the depth of our love for Him (Job 23:10; Mk 9:49; Jas 5:10-11; Rev 21:7). In moments of pain and sacrifice, we face the ultimate test of our devotion. It is easy to claim love for God when life is comfortable, but true love is proven when we endure hardship for His sake. Do we genuinely love Him, even when it costs us? This question challenges us to examine the sincerity of our Faith during life’s most trying times.
Love Cannot Exist Apart from Human Freewill in a Naturalistic World
The often-raised question, “Why doesn’t God stop violence, suffering, or injustice?” is one that we already addressed. But let's review it from a different angle. If God stepped in to prevent every evil act, why stop there? Should He also prevent every mistake, every misstep, every potential danger? Should He rewrite every human choice to ensure nothing ever goes wrong? Such a world would strip away what it means to be human, and reduce us to mere robots with programmed behaviour and actions.
If God were to stop every bad thing from happening, what would be left of love? Love, at its core, must be freely given and freely received. Without choice, love loses its meaning. It becomes an empty gesture or a mechanical response with no heart, no depth, and no value.
True love cannot be forced. Imagine being compelled to care for someone without any say in the matter. That wouldn't be love—it would be compliance. Love thrives only in freedom. The beauty of love lies in the choice to put someone else above yourself, to seek their good even when it costs you. If God were to eliminate our ability to make decisions—both good and bad—He would also eliminate the possibility of real love. A world where no one could do wrong would be a world where no one could truly love.
The existence of bad actions, of suffering, isn’t a sign of God's absence or neglect. Instead, it’s a testament to the incredible freedom we’ve been given to choose. If God stopped every evil action, intervening in every moment of potential harm, He would remove the very thing that makes love possible—our free will. We can choose to love or to hate, to build or to destroy. For love to mean something, it must come with risk. The risk that people may choose selfishness, cruelty, or harm. Without that risk, love would be reduced to an illusion—a mere function of control.
In a world where God forced every outcome, there would be no room for growth, for sacrifice, or for love. Love requires that we make the choice ourselves—to love Him in the midst of brokenness, to trust His wisdom even when we don’t understand, and to choose what is good over what is easy or practical.
The Issue of Sin
According to the Bible, sin is defined as the transgression of God’s Law (1 Jn 3:4). Any disobedience to God's commandments constitutes sin. Apart from the knowledge of good and evil expressed in God’s Law (Ex 20:2-17), man is unable to distinguish right from wrong. For this reason, humans cannot define right and wrong on the basis of their own moral code. Morals cease to exist independent of divine authority. Hence, true morality hinges on the principles set forth by God, the Creator of the universe.
At the most basic level, human morality and the distinction between good and evil is viewed through the lens of harm. We commonly hear phrases like, “I’m not hurting anyone, so it must be okay.” This reflects our natural tendency to judge actions by their immediate impact on others. Acts like rape, murder, and theft are universally condemned because of the clear pain they cause. But is pain the only factor in determining right from wrong? If harm could be erased from these actions, would they be justified? Absolutely not! Even if we could minimize the pain we inflict on others, we could never escape the sorrow we cause God when we willfully disobey Him. That's why our God-given conscious testifies to His moral Law and screams at us when we fail to obey it. Sin is ultimately an offense against God’s authority, regardless of its apparent effects on others.
Furthermore, our limited understanding makes us "nearsighted," focused only on the present. In contrast, God’s omniscience allows Him to see the full picture and the far-reaching consequences of every action. What may seem harmless in the moment could have devastating effects down the line. If God were to let our sinful actions go unchecked, they would inevitably lead to our ruin. This is why relying on our own moral judgment is inherently dangerous.
In His infinite wisdom and love, God has given us the Ten Commandments to serve as a guide for righteous living (Ex 20:2-17; 34:28). By following His Law, we are spared the confusion of determining right and wrong on our own. Adhering to God’s commandments leads to freedom from sin and its destructive consequences.
Why Didn’t God Terminate Sin Right from the Start?
Have you ever wondered why God didn’t put an end to sin immediately after humanity’s first transgression in Eden? Why didn’t He offer Christ to atone directly for Adam and Eve, restoring them to perfection? After all, didn’t He love them just as much as anyone else? If we take God's Word at face value, we must believe that He did. God loved Adam and Eve just as much as He loves you and me. So why didn’t Jesus die for sin right from the beginning? To grasp this, we need to examine sin and its effects more closely.
Sin does not immediately reveal its consequences. Many believe they have escaped the repercussions of wrongdoing simply because the law hasn’t yet caught up with them. However, sin is like a droplet of water splashing into a pool, sending ripples throughout the surface. The sin of one individual can inadvertently affect an entire population. Over time, the whole world eventually feels the negative repercussions of a single sin. Yet, this unfolding reality serves as a crucial lesson; it leads us to a deeper understanding of God's purpose for making rules in the first place.
Even after the fall of Adam, humanity did not immediately experience the full consequences of their ancestors' sin. Adam and Eve became distant figures from the past, and sin may have appeared trivial and insignificant just as it often does. So people continued to sin without realizing the long-term effects, which allowed sin to accumulate—one transgression upon another—until the combined weight of all these sins began to manifest in profound ways. Eventually, the negative repercussions of sin became unmistakable. Suddenly, sin was not as insignificant as initially believed; people started to understand the cause-and-effect relationship that sin inherently carries because the resulting pain and suffering were tremendous.
This is why God did not send a Savior into the world immediately after the fall. He allowed sin to take its course, not to be cruel, but to let humanity fully experience the weight of its consequences. He wanted people to understand the reality of sin and its destructive effects, so they could come to appreciate the necessity of being governed by His Law. Adam and Eve’s transgression was not merely a small bite from an “apple,” but a deliberate act of disobedience—a rejection of God's wise counsel and supreme authority. That single act of rebellion set in motion a chain of consequences that affected the entire human race, multiplying exponentially over time. Through this, the deeper purpose of God's commandments became clear: to protect us from the devastation that sin brings.
Freewill & Destiny
Human free will is an inherent gift from God that cannot be revoked. Humans are free to choose how they will live and what they will do so long as it aligns with God's will. In contrast, destiny lies firmly within the realm of God's sovereignty. How, then, do we reconcile these two concepts? There exists a profound distinction between freewill and destiny: freewill is dictated by human choice, while destiny is orchestrated by the divine. Although God holds our destiny in His hands, He does not manipulate our freewill. Our thoughts, desires, and actions are not preordained. We possess the ability to respond to our circumstances, temptations, pain, and trials in any manner we choose. Ultimately, however, our choices will shape our destinies.
To illustrate this relationship, consider a competitive sporting match. The world serves as the arena, and we are the players, with God and Satan acting as opposing coaches. From the outset, it’s essential to acknowledge God’s infinite superiority. Freewill allows us to play the game, but destiny determines the outcome. In this contest, God inspires and guides the players, while Satan seeks to influence them in a different direction. However, God holds the advantage, for He not only conceived the game but also directs it. At times, to fulfill His divine plan, He permits Satan to sway the players towards darkness. Yet, as players, we retain the freedom to choose our moves. We can either succumb to Satan’s manipulations or embrace God’s guidance.
But what is the purpose of this match—the players, God, and Satan? The answer is simple: God aims to identify true champions, those who will choose goodness and support His divine purpose of their own volition. If you find yourself playing for the wrong team, remember that you can switch sides at any time. God desires willing participants, not mechanical puppets. Despite human suffering and death, He allows freewill to unfold naturally, expecting us to effect change in the world through our own self-directed choices.
Fortunately, God remains unchanging: “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variableness, neither shadow of turning” (Jas 1:17). This assures us that the rules will remain consistent until the Day of Judgment (Rev 20:11-14); God will not suddenly change up the rules or disqualify righteous players (Christians).
Yet, some people doubt God’s fairness. They wish for Him to withdraw from human affairs, perceiving Him as cruel or unjust simply because He sets the rules. It’s crucial to remember that regardless of our perceptions of God’s nature, He still remains just, holy, and sovereign. His perfect sovereignty is powerfully illustrated in the following Scriptures:
Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honor, and another unto dishonor? (Rom 9.20).
But now, O LORD, thou art our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of thy hand (Isa 64.8).
O house of Israel, cannot I do with you as this potter? saith the Lord. Behold, as the clay is in the potter's hand, so are ye in mine hand, O house of Israel (Jer 18:6).
Woe unto them that seek deep to hide their counsel from the LORD, and their works are in the dark, and they say, Who seeth us? and who knoweth us? Surely your turning of things upside down shall be esteemed as the potter's clay: for shall the work say of him that made it, He made me not? or shall the thing framed say of him that framed it, He had no understanding? (Isa 29:15-16).
Woe unto him that striveth with his Maker! Let the potsherd strive with the potsherds of the earth. Shall the clay say to him that fashioneth it, What makest thou? or thy work, He hath no hands? Woe unto him that saith unto his father, What begettest thou? or to the woman, What hast thou brought forth? (Isa 45:9).
Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon. For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts (Isa 55:7-11).
For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion. So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that hath mercy. Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he still find fault? For who withstandeth his will? What if God, willing to show his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering vessels of wrath fitted unto destruction: and that he might make known the riches of his glory upon vessels of mercy, which he afore prepared unto glory (Rom 9:15-16,22-23).
The Depravity of Man
To truly grasp the depth of God’s love and the significance of Christ’s sacrifice, we must first confront the reality of our sinful condition. The Bible teaches that, due to Adam's sin, human nature is depraved: “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” (Jer 17:9).
Apart from Christ, we are not merely depraved; we are inherently evil (Mat 7:11; Lk 11:13). This understanding is crucial for anyone seeking to comprehend the message of salvation. Without divine intervention and the crucifixion of Christ, we would be utterly incapable of saving ourselves. Self-regeneration is beyond our reach, and we cannot replace our wicked hearts. This means that Christ is our only hope for salvation. Only He can redeem us from sin and transform our fallen nature. However, we cannot accept salvation without acknowledging our own depravity, just as one must first recognize their illness before accepting the medicine. Once we realize our need for help, the cure can be introduced. This is the essence of the Gospel—it reveals our sinful condition and exposes our desperate need, making the cross of Christ resonate with profound significance.
Even in the Old Testament, before Christ’s arrival, individuals understood their wretchedness in comparison to God’s holiness. This realization led the prophet Isaiah to cry out: “Woe is me! for I am undone; because I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips: for mine eyes have seen the King, the LORD of hosts... For we are all become as one that is unclean, and all our righteousness are as a polluted garment: and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, take us away” (Is 6:1-5; 64:6).
Isaiah was keenly aware of his human condition and readily acknowledged his wretchedness. But what about us? Do we recognize our profound depravity? Do we truly understand our need for a Savior?
God’s Mantle of Grace
“For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) dwelleth no good thing” (Rom 7:18).
Apart from Christ, humanity is devoid of any inherent goodness. Every virtue we admire in ourselves and others is not a product of our own nature but a reflection of God’s grace. This grace acts like a mantle draped over us, much like clothing that covers and enhances our appearance. Without it, we are exposed, naked, and lacking. Therefore, we cannot take credit for the goodness we display because it isn't truly ours.
Understanding this truth allows us to turn our gaze inward. The outward image we craft to impress others instantly vanishes, and for the first time, we confront the hideous monster of "self" lurking within—the pride, vanity, selfishness, and the many other flaws we harbor. As these are exposed, we are stripped of our self-importance. At last, we recognize that any worth we possess is due to His grace alone, which puts us in a rightful place before God.
It's worth noting that even those who do not believe are recipients of God’s grace, though they stand at greater risk of losing it. Christ’s words, “apart from me you can do nothing” (Jn 15:5), remain true for everyone. Without His grace, none of us would be able to accomplish anything.
Imagine for a moment if God withdrew His grace—would not our capacity for evil instantly surface, revealing the dark nature that lies beneath? It is only His grace that restrains us, preventing the full expression of our potential for wickedness. And it is for this reason that humanity, left to its own devices, justly deserves condemnation. So the next time you embrace a loved one, remember, the attraction you feel towards them is merely due to the grace of God enveloping them. Nothing that is pleasant or appealing about the people we cherish is worthy to be cherished otherwise.
Only when we recognize our own depravity in contrast to Christ’s perfection can we truly appreciate His unmerited love. The Bible reminds us that while we were still sinners, “Christ died for us” (Rom 5:8). It is in recognizing our wretchedness—realizing that we are no better than the vilest of sinners—that we can truly fall in love with our Savior. His love for us is not based on our worthiness, but on the boundless grace He so freely gives.
“She Loved Much Because She Was Forgiven Much”
The story of the sinful woman in Luke 7 beautifully illustrates the transformative power of love born from forgiveness. Jesus was profoundly moved by this woman, who poured an entire flask of perfume over His feet, expressing her deep love and gratitude. His words encapsulate the essence of her actions: "Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little" (Lk 7:47).
Do you see why this woman was capable of such love? She qualified for Christ’s forgiveness because she recognized her desperate need for it. The same principle applies to us. If we perceive ourselves as merely “good people” who don’t require significant forgiveness, we risk becoming emotionally sterile towards Christ’s sacrifice.
An inflated sense of self-worth blinds us to our true condition. God desires us to be pliable and humble—a broken people who acknowledge our lowly state. He cannot save those who have already conformed themselves to an agenda of self-improvement. Thus, God can more readily work with a penitent sinner than with a self-righteous Pharisee. It’s far easier to mold someone who recognizes their insufficiency than one who overestimates their value. That’s why it’s vital to contrast our total wretchedness with God’s pure and undefiled nature. Christ's Gospel offers the greatest message of hope because unconditional love is extended to those who least deserve it.
The True Meaning of the Cross
What does the cross of Christ truly signify? Is it only about the physical pain and suffering that Jesus endured? Unfortunately, many believe this because of countless Christian ministers who focus almost exclusively on His physical torment, often portraying it in vivid, graphic terms—similar to scenes from The Passion of the Christ. Their messages tend to emphasize God's immense love by underscoring Christ's excruciating pain: “Imagine what Christ must have felt when He was beaten, bruised, flogged, and crucified....” However, dwelling on the physical suffering alone does not evoke a deeper love or true appreciation for the profound emotional and spiritual sacrifice Christ made.
The truth is, Christ did not sweat blood over the thought of spiky nails and a wooden cross, though His physical agony must not be dismissed. The real question is: What did Jesus endure on the cross to shield humanity from the Father’s righteous wrath? To understand this, we must realize that when Jesus pleaded with the Father, "let this cup pass from me" (Mat 26:39), He wasn’t referring to His impending physical suffering. The “cup” He was about to drink would transform Him into something so repulsive and wretched that the Father would have to look away. It was the Father's abandonment, not the nails, that caused Christ His deepest agony.
Imagine the eternal bond between God the Father and God the Son—a relationship of perfect love and unity. The Father had always delighted in His Son, beholding His infinite purity and righteousness, while the Son rejoiced in reflecting His Father’s sovereign majesty. Then, in a moment of unparalleled divine drama, the Father sent His only begotten Son into the world—the greatest gift humanity could ever receive. Yet, as the Father watched from above, humanity rejected this precious gift, just as His omniscience foretold. They failed to recognize Christ for who He truly was—God Himself, given freely for their redemption.
In heartbreaking rejection, evil men crucified Jesus. And for the first time in all eternity, the Father’s loving gaze turned away from His Son’s pleading eyes, severing their divine connection. The pure, spotless Lamb of God was crushed under the unbearable weight of humanity’s guilt and shame. Our loving Savior, who knew no sin, died not only from physical torment but from the profound anguish of a broken heart.
Where's the Justice in an Innocent Man Paying the Penalty for the Guilty?
Was Christ’s sacrifice a fraud? Did He die in vain? Where is the justice in an innocent man paying the penalty for someone else’s crime? These are serious questions, and they deserve thoughtful answers. Forcing someone to bear the punishment for another’s wrongdoing seems unjust, doesn’t it? But what if that person chose to do so out of love? Think of parents who willingly pay for damages caused by their child’s mistakes. It’s not their responsibility, yet they take it on, driven by love and a desire to protect. In a far greater way, Jesus made that very choice on our behalf. He chose to take the full weight of our sin, freeing us from the judgment we deserve.
Let there be no misunderstanding: Christ didn’t reluctantly accept this punishment; He embraced it eagerly, out of His deep love for us. His sacrifice wasn’t an act of compulsion but a willing offering, showing us just how far He would go to secure our forgiveness and restore us to the Father.
The Love of God
The Scriptures repeatedly affirm that God is the very source of love: “For God is love” (1 Jn 4:8).
What a striking contrast this paints against the backdrop of pagan cultures, where gods were often depicted as cruel, vindictive beings quick to unleash wrath on those who failed to appease them. Yet, the God of the Bible is not only merciful but desires to draw near to us. He extends an invitation to all His creatures, longing to be our closest friend—a privilege beyond comprehension.
The Bible beautifully illustrates this relationship:
“Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God” (Jas 2:23).
“You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you. You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain” (Jn 15:12-14).
The Bible, at its core, is a vast chronicle of God’s love and concern for humanity, revealing His just dealings, relentless calls for repentance, and His overwhelming compassion for His people: “How fair is thy love, my sister, my bride! How much better is thy love than wine! And the fragrance of thine oils than all manner of spices!” (Song of Solomon 4:10).
How blessed are we to serve a God so deeply invested in us! Even when we grow indifferent, God draws near, as He did with Moses:
“And the LORD descended in the cloud, and stood with him there, and proclaimed the name of the LORD. And the LORD passed by before him, and proclaimed, ‘The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abundant in lovingkindness and truth’” (Ex 34:5-6).
In essence, God was telling Moses, “Look at Me! Here I am—merciful, gracious, slow to anger, and abundant in love and truth. You can trust Me!”
But, friends, God's love doesn’t stop there. Even when we stray, He seeks us out like a Father longing for His lost children:
“When Israel was a child, I loved him, and out of Egypt I called My son. I taught Ephraim to walk, taking them by their arms, but they did not know that I healed them. I drew them with cords of love, and I was to them as those who take the yoke from their neck. How could I give you up, Ephraim? My heart turns within me; all My compassion is kindled. I shall not let the heat of My wrath burn, I shall not turn to destroy Ephraim. For I am God, and not man, the Set-apart One in your midst, and I shall not come in enmity” (Hos 11:1-9).
Conclusion
From the passages and discussions presented so far, we witness the depth of God’s love and His desire to be our Friend (Jn 15:12-17), Father (Lk 15:11-32), Redeemer (Jn 3:16), and even our Lover (Song of Solomon 4). He longs to dwell within us (Jn 15:4), reminding us that the suffering and pain we see in this world is not a result of His indifference, but of our sin. Even so, God uses these hardships to refine us, drawing us closer to Him and shaping our character. Let us therefore remember that all of life's trials serve a divine purpose, and in the end, they will benefit us:
“If I had not felt certain that every additional trial was ordered by infinite love and compassion, I could not have survived my accumulated sufferings.” – Adoniram Judson
“For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom 8:38-39).